Boys 'Round Here

Originally Written and Posted on May 12th, 2013

This weekend was another intense and half assed ridiculous weekend. 

So, as an extension to Creepin', let the fun begin...not.

Friday night, we all got ready to head to town and our neighbour made an inappropriate and rude comment about my vehicle not starting as it had been sitting for a few days - when in fact the previous night it had been moved for 4 hours as we went into the city! - suck on that creep. Anyways my brother made a remark back about that being a smart ass comment. Then we left, only to realize we had forgotten the gas can, so we turned around. In that 4 minutes, the neighbour had removed our dog leash anchors and one was on the deck and the other was thrown around the yard. He was pissed off at my brothers remark, so he trespassed and moved shit that he had no right to touch. A ton of words were said, along with calling me rude and unfriendly because GOD FORBID I didn't say hi to him one morning. He then threatened my brother as well. Completely unacceptable. So I then got involved in the spat, when you go after my family, especially after previously stalking my brother, it's red head f**king fury anger now. I had enough. I laid into him a bit, told him none of what he was saying was his business and that he wasn't the manager of the trailer court. He told us our dogs weren't allowed on his two feet of property anymore, that's why he moved shit in our yard. He stared down my brother, regardless of how many times Wade told him to look at him, or stepped in between them, finally I stepped in between my brother and him and told my brother to walk away. It got ridiculous, he wanted to be civil, but was raising his voice and swearing at us. He thinks because we're young - we're dumb and irresponsible, but honestly, who's the one who was drinking all day and came over to confront three people?? And just be a total jackass to all three of them? That right there shows us that you're not responsible, that and you're in your 40's, so grow the f*** up! Conversation over dick head. When we got home, we had dinner outside, and put up a shelf in the shed and put stuff away. This is when he decided to stand outside and watch his grass grow where he could keep a clear eye on us! What a CREEP!!!

So, we were outside all Saturday, doing yard stuff, new stairs, privacy screen railing, and having fun! He came to turn on and off his garden hose 7 times and didn't say hi once, now who's being petty? No wonder I don't want to say hi, you are an ignorant dick. Whatever. 

So, that leads me to tonight, Sunday. We didn't do much, just hung out at home, and got a few groceries. It was super windy out to even want to do anything. So we stayed inside most of the day, made sushi, and this evening went and put boards and stuff away, make sure nothing could blow away in the 70-80km/hr winds we were expected to have tonight. 10pm came around, the lights went out in the house, and we laid in bed listening to music and talking, and all of a sudden, boom boom boom (the bass of the neighbours music) it's now, 10:15pm, people are trying to sleep because they have to get up. I put on my housecoat and head down the hallway, open the door to confirm it was indeed the asshole next door. I put on my shoes and walked to the managers, made her dog bark and scare her. She went over and told him to turn it off. Now he's just being ignorant, he went outside as soon as he saw me head down there, pretended to pick something up from behind a vehicle (I know there was nothing there, from the day time), and then walked back into his house as the manager and I headed back. So now, it's almost midnight, I'm sleeping in clothes, full out - yoga pants, sports bra and tshirt - and to top it off, I know where there's a board and pellet gun. Needless to say, I can't sleep. 

Anyone else have stupid neighbours like this?!? I honestly don't feel safe going outside alone, so I'm a hermit during the week when the guys are gone at work. I let the dogs in the pen, and stay in the house. Only problem is, I feel like he might do something to my pets, in which I'll be really pissed off about. I don't want to go outside, I purposely avoid it because of this creep, what a great way to waste away a spring/summer...not. I can't wait for something to happen and him to leave. Next incident, I will be filing harassment against him! 

**written on iPhone, also sorry for the language, but I'm mad and annoyed**

Scream and Shout

Not a whole lot has been going on. I've started the Hip Hop Abs workout program. I'm on day 2 of 30. I'm liking it so far so I think it'll be a good program for me! I'm excited, it's a pretty neat program, and it involves dancing which I like doing whether or not I'm good at it.

We had a plumber in yesterday, sure enough there's issues with the pipes under the ground (nothing will be at our cost)! We have tree roots invading the pipes. He said we're incredibly lucky that it's taken this long for our pipes to block up and back up into the bath tub! I however, don't feel lucky at all, because now everything stinks! It is in the process through the manager to have the pipes ripped up and replaced - this is a one full day adventure for the plumbers - so we will see what happens. Now that we can use water, I can finally clean everything, we didn't have water for 3 days, so one could say our house is a mess. The kitchen is almost clean, then I'm on to the bathroom. Nothing is more satisfying than a clean house.

We are going to the farmers market this weekend, it's opening weekend and I cannot wait. Next weekend we're going to BC to see my God daughter and some family. The weekend after that we're doing something here for my brother's big 21 birthday! Then the weekend after that, nothing, but following it is Wade's 24 birthday. July long weekend we're headed to BC again for my little cousins graduation, I can't believe she's already graduating! And two weeks after that we're off to BC again for 10 days for my friends wedding! YAY! I can't wait, it will be a good time :) We're going to be super busy, with all of this, doing work outside (another new set of stairs), re-doing the railing on the deck, all of that fun stuff. Everything happens in the summer, which is great, traveling in the winter kind of sucks, due to weather and road conditions.

Sometimes we're so busy that I just want to scream and shout. I love summer because it is so busy, and I've already got a tan (my mom is jealous) :D Most people know that getting a tan as a red head is difficult because of our pale complexion, well, every few years I go through a stage where I will burn and it will turn to a tan, or I'll just tan. Most years I just burn and peel but this year is going to be different as my first burn left me pretty cherry tomato red, and now I'm pretty golden brown :) Hope the weather is nice for everyone!

Can't Keep Waiting

You know, when you're diagnosed with a long term disease, that currently doesn't have any cure, it truly takes a huge toll on you. All it has is a bunch of drugs, some of which deteriorate your bones and damage your cartilage. That moment you find out, it's life changing. It's not just life changing for you, it's life changing for your family - when you live at home or visit - and it's life changing for those you date or marry. Your diet changes, your weight changes, almost everything about you changes.

Everything for me is trial and error. I'm not on medication, I control my Crohn's Disease strictly with diet. I have Asacol (gastrointestinal anti-inflammatory), but I don't take it, it's mostly for if I'm having a really bad day, and this stuff is $125 for 30 days worth of anti-inflammatories.

It's almost surreal, you've been sick for who knows how long, and when you finally find out what's going on, you don't want to believe it, you live in denial for a while. You want nothing to do with the changes you're going to experience in life, or the changes you're going to be forced to take. I was 17 when I found out, I was sick for two years prior, I lived in a small town, getting the tests necessary to find out what's going on takes a long time. That and the doctors there take a really long time to even consider sending you for the tests. At 17, this seems like your life is over, like you will have to work your absolute hardest every day to stay healthy, and to be positive about your disease. And you know, that's how I felt, everything was harder, my mom had to either cook extra food for me that was different than theirs, or they had to eat according to my diet. That in itself isn't easy.

I think one of my biggest fears is and always will be that it is too much for my family or my significant other. That's what I thought about when I first met Wade, I almost didn't want to tell him I had such a debilitating disease, something that could kill me, or that I could have multiple surgeries for and it would never truly go away. I told him, and within three months of us dating, I was in the hospital for a flare up due to stress. He somewhat surprised me, he stuck with me, at the hospital, and through everything. (I've already talked about this in a past post so I won't go on) That's when you know someone is willing to make every sacrifice to make sure your health and wellbeing are the best it can be.

Wade has adjusted his diet to what mine is, he only eats what I do. I don't know if it's simply because he's that incredible and nice, and would rather not make me make different meals for him and I, or if it's simply because he doesn't care. He knows what I can and cannot eat, and what may and may not bug me, and he makes sure that I keep up with that. He does buy some stuff that I can't have strictly because of Crohn's Disease, like oranges. I can't even be around the smell of them when they're being peeled, so he takes them strictly for his lunches and doesn't eat them in the house.

Your life changes when you have a disease like Crohn's. It can change for the better, or it can change for the worse. You have to make it what you want it to be. Lately, I've been doing incredible health wise, I'm also not working a 9-5 job (I sell coffee/tea products), and I'm getting adequate amounts of sleep. Generally, to have a good day I need about 8 hours of solid sleep, uninterrupted. I have been sticking to my diet, and well breaking into some of my avoids list, simply to test how the Mycelium and Ganoderma capsules have been treating me. I am now out of the Ganoderma capsules, so I'm taking the Spore Powder and Mycelium, along with a prenatal vitamin. This is day two of the Spore Powder, so I don't have much to report just yet.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that, you need to make the necessary changes in your life to make your debilitating disease manageable. Keep positive, and stress free, take vitamins and eat healthy. Also, go for at least a half hour walk every day, or mow the lawn. Something equivalent, that is exercise, because it truly has some of the best effects on you, and the fresh air is always nice. I don't do yoga, or exercise videos or anything. My weight has been maintained by walking, yard work, house work, sometimes I go for some bike rides, but mostly I eat healthy and keep up on my nutrients. Make this new life of yours with a disease, the best your life can be, and continue to live that way. There is no better feeling in life, than when you are feeling the best you've felt in a long time.

Everything Has Changed

As if the last few days with our neighbour haven't been enough...

We have back flow of water in our tub when we run the washer, Wade has been investigating this all afternoon. Snaking it and snaking it, but coming up with no clogs. It's extremely puzzling. He's going to talk to the trailer court manager and see what she can have done, as it's clearly not in our pipes. We've also poured a ton of drain cleaner down the pipes!

On a side note, we went and talked to the manager today regarding our neighbour. She's said that he drinks quite a lot of alcohol, and she thinks he has Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. So that accompanied with the alcohol he drinks (and I wouldn't be surprised if there were drugs in the mix), makes sense as to his behaviour for the most part. It definitely explains the walking around in silk boxers! I'm not sure if it explains him stalking my brother with a pair of garden sheers. That in itself is something else, I think. The manager has no issues with us at all, not the number of vehicles we have or anything. She said we're quiet, nice, and neighbourly!

Nothing else has really happened today. Talked to a good friend this morning. We've been friends for about 7.5 years. Our friendship, like most was off and on, but regardless I'm proud of him. He went into chef training, and is now working at a restaurant he loves. Not just that though, he's got big ambitions and goals in life. Traveling and cooking in places like Paris, maybe taking some pastry courses too! He wants to learn several different cuisines as well, he will be accomplished. Not only that, but he also wants to go to University again for Psychology! It's incredible to hear about his journey, and I do hope that one day he does make it on Iron Chef, because well, that would be absolutely incredible for him, and such an amazing and unforgettable experience! I wish you much luck with all your future endeavours GCB. You will do amazing at whatever you pursue my friend. Despite where I friendship goes, or doesn't go, I will keep you in my thoughts with all future endeavours!

I talked to my Minnesotan friend today too, much like every other day, we talk via Facebook, Xbox, or text. She's great too. Having a few of  the same struggles I am, so it's a fantastic friendship. We are there to support each other with everything going on right now. It'll stay that way, I'm hoping.

Crash My Party

The last few days I haven't been feeling good, so I haven't been doing much, including not writing posts! Sorry guys! I would like to thank everyone who does read my blog, from all over the world! It is truly appreciated!

I've been taking the Ganoderma Lucidum and Mycelium capsules now (1 a day) since April 6, 2013. I can honestly say that my Crohn's Disease has been completely under control. It's never been better actually. It's one less thing I have to worry about on a daily basis, which to anyone who is living with Crohn's, and you're looking for a bathroom in every public place you go to, I haven't had that problem in over a month now. You know what it's like, anyone with IBS, or something similar. It's not something you want to deal with on a daily basis but are absolutely forced to. I truly wish I could get every one of you trying these products, they would be worth your while and worth your money. I really do encourage everyone to give Organo Gold's products a try, even if it's only for a few days, you will notice a difference!

I've been having ridiculously vivid dreams still. Almost every night, and I've hardly been sleeping, sometimes I'm only getting about 4 hours of sleep, I'm really not sure what is up with that. We shall find out soon I would imagine. I'm just hoping it all straightens out and I can go back to being me, not someone who is constantly tired or needing a nap! (And grumpy)

I've also been downloading some new music, and a few new movies. Today I watched "Safe Haven". I have to say, I absolutely love Nicholas Sparks' books, and I really love the movies too! Safe Haven made me think a lot, about how much I love my life, the things I'm doing, the places I'm going, the things Wade and I are experiencing or doing together. Before I met him, I really didn't do much, didn't go to concerts or anything. I mostly went out drinking to a local bar with some friends, that's about all my life consisted of, that and work/college. He's changed my life in so many ways, the best ways possible.

We have a fire ban no in all of the area, no camp fires, no anything. It's so dry here that they're even advising people to not leave their ATV's idling in one spot for too long as the heat from the exhaust may cause the grass to catch fire! - I'm thinking of making s'mores on the BBQ, you put the chocolate and marshmallow in between your graham crackers, wrap it in foil, and put them on the BBQ! I was really hoping to have a fire this weekend, but I guess we'll just be working on tidying the yard, getting crap put away and organized (on the account of our creepy neighbour, everything will be locked up), getting my suntan on, putting up a privacy screen (so I can tan in my bikini), and maybe even going in our pool! This fire ban has really put a damper on our fire having plans, and has crashed our party!